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B.A. Lampman's avatar

My Mom died in 2017, and I've come to believe that the death of your mother will kick your ass no matter what your relationship was. How could it not? This is the person you looked to the second you were born. This is surely the person you'll always look to for love, approval, belonging, nurturing, *everything*. I did not have a good relationship with my mother, so my grieving was "complicated" as they say. I remember that for at least a year afterwards I had the strange sensation that there were goings-on in the back of my mind that I wasn't privy to. Not to mention that I was completely discombobulated. It takes as long as it takes. And now when I hear that someone's mother has died... oof. I FEEL YOU.

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Chris La Tray's avatar

❤️✊🏽

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